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Today is War Widows Day the 19 October, the Families of Veterans Guild is urging Australians to honour and support over 32,000 war widows across the nation, acknowledging their sacrifices and addressing the issue of social isolation that so many of them face. While War Widows Day commemorates the immense contribution these women have made, it also serves as a reminder that more needs to be done by both the government and society to support the families of veterans.
Data from the Household, Income, and Labour Dynamics in Australia (HILDA) survey reveals that loneliness is a major challenge for individuals after the death of a spouse, underscoring the critical importance of social interaction in alleviating this feeling of isolation. Across Australia, 15% of people experience social isolation and 16% feel lonely. However, among Defence families, particularly those who have lost a loved one to service, these numbers are significantly higher.
“Being a war widow can be a lonely and nuanced experience, shaped by the complexities of a life connected to the defence and service of Australia,” said Renee Wilson, CEO of the Families of Veterans Guild. “We saw during the Royal Commission into Defence and Veteran Suicide that war widows and veteran families have often been silent pillars of strength for our country, sacrificing their own wellbeing while coping with the loss of their loved ones. As Australians, it is our duty to stand by them.”
The Families of Veterans Guild, formerly known as Australian War Widows NSW, has been supporting war widows for over 75 years. Founded by war widows for war widows, the Guild ensures that those connected to veteran families have access to support, recognition, and community. “It is both our privilege and responsibility to honour their sacrifices and ensure no war widow ever feels alone,” Wilson added.
Social isolation, particularly among war widows, can have severe effects on both mental and physical health. The recent NSW government’s inquiry into loneliness highlighted the broader societal issue, stressing the need for targeted solutions, especially for vulnerable groups like war widows.
NSW Premier Chris Minns commended the Families of Veterans Guild for its work, stating, “Veterans and their families make great sacrifices for our nation. The grief and isolation war widows face have lasting impacts, and their resilience deserves our recognition and support. I commend the Guild for raising awareness of social isolation on War Widows Day.”
Despite their resilience, many war widows continue to battle loneliness, a problem that could be mitigated with stronger community support and greater government action. While recognition and commemorative events are important, real progress requires sustained efforts from all levels of government to provide meaningful support to veteran families, including mental health services, social programs, and financial aid.
To mark War Widows Day, the Families of Veterans Guild is hosting several events and fundraisers nationwide, including:
- A commemorative service at Sydney’s Martin Place Cenotaph at 10:30 AM on 19 October 2024, open to war widows, veteran families, and the general public.
- Regional and rural commemorations organized by war widows or local service organizations.
- The “Buy a Widow a Coffee” campaign, supporting the Guild’s social clubs and events that help widows connect with others and combat isolation.
- The sale of limited-release wattle lapel pins, representing the resilience and strength of war widows, with proceeds supporting the Guild’s initiatives.
The Families of Veterans Guild encourages all Australians, even if they cannot attend an event or fundraiser, to reach out to the war widows in their lives. A simple act of spending time with them can have a profound impact on combating loneliness and reminding them that they are not alone.
This War Widows Day, let us not only remember the sacrifices made but also commit to supporting those who bear the weight of that sacrifice. With greater awareness, action, and government support, we can ensure that no war widow is left isolated or forgotten.